THE DO’S AND DON’TS OF HOLIDAY GIFT GIVING

Posted December 29, 2008 by Bernz

This year I cut back on gift-giving. I’m willing to bet many of you followed suit. But giving less does more than relieve financial stress. I find it makes me more selective in not only who I purchase gifts for, but I spend more time selecting the gifts I purchase.

Here are a few thoughts on my holiday gift giving “system”.

happyRe-gifting has become fashionable over the years because people are more conscious about reducing clutter, waste, and are well-aware of the advantages to recycling. But I also believe re-gifting is gaining popularity because layoffs, investment losses, and high unemployment rates have made it a necessity for people to cut back on spending. If you are thinking about re-gifting, go for it. No one has to know but you. And there should not be any negative feelings about giving away a gift than someone gave to you. Here are re-gifting etiquette practices to make the experience one you and the gift recipient will enjoy.

• Give an item that is in its original package. Make sure the package is not torn, soiled or smelly.

• Give something you’re sure the recipient will enjoy.
• Make sure it’s not something the recipient gave to you

What to do if someone gives you a gift and you didn’t give them one in return? No need to apologize. Or worse, rush over to your tree and pull a gift intended for someone else. A warm thank you and hug will be generous enough.

How should you treat a gift you receive from your parents, spouse or best friend? If someone close to you gives you an expensive gift and it’s not something you like or will ever use, thank them for their generosity. But be honest. Explain why the gift is not right for you. For instance, point out an important feature that you really need or that the improper fit will make you have to alter the garment (an expense that everyone dreads!). Then warmly ask if the individual would mind you exchanging the gift for something very similar.

Should you receive an inexpensive gift you don’t like, accept it and make it a re-gift item. Use it for someone’s birthday present, job anniversary, or significant holiday.

Now for the big one. Are you obligated to give a gift to your boss? Absolutely not. On the other hand if you and your boss have a great relationship and you’re not strapped for cash, then it’s perfectly appropriate for you to give them a present. Gift choices that work well for bosses include: a fine bottle of wine, a coffee gift card, theater or restaurant tickets.


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